Wednesday, November 6, 2019
5 Ways To Quit Panicking Before a Big Interview
5 Ways To Quit Panicking Before a Big Interview Interviews, especially for jobs we really want, can be incredibly nerve-wracking. Here are five ways to calm yourself down and walk in with the confidence youââ¬â¢ll need to land the job. Turn the voices offYour brain is probably playing a loop of what-ifs. Those have to stop. There are plenty of things you wonââ¬â¢t be able to control, and thereââ¬â¢s no use worrying about those. And thereââ¬â¢s no sense worrying about the things you can control- try controlling them instead. Give yourself periodic reality checks and make sure youââ¬â¢re not spinning too far off into a fear spiral.Find your power placeYouââ¬â¢ll perform best when you feel at your best. That means being relaxed, confident, and tapped into what it is that makes you special. Figure out before the interview how to channel this feeling, and practice conjuring it up. That way, even when youââ¬â¢re in the hot seat, youââ¬â¢ll be able to access it and get into your groove.BreatheAs silly as it sounds , remind yourself to breathe. Nerves are a physiological response and your reaction to them can exacerbate the panic cycle. A few deep breaths can calm your autonomic nervous system enough for you to get back on track.Embrace rejectionFearing it wonââ¬â¢t help you avoid it. Rejection is more common than not. The sooner you come to peace with getting a few ââ¬Å"noââ¬â¢s for every ââ¬Ëyes,â⬠the better. Instead of feeling the shame, try embracing the positive: you tried, you may have failed, but you probably learned something worthwhile that will help you next time.See the personItââ¬â¢s easy to view your interviewer as a robot or a super-villain holding the keys to your future and stingily not letting you in. But hiring managers are people too. Theyââ¬â¢d be delighted if you were the last person they ever had to interview. So connect on a human level, do your best, and remember: youââ¬â¢re just two people having a conversation.After enough interviews and buil ding this new calm and confidence, you might start to view them as a pleasant opportunity- something to look forward to!- rather than a thing to dread.
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